Experiencing trauma is an extremely distressing, but often unavoidable part of life. Although the lingering effects of traumatic experiences can make us feel isolated, this couldn’t be further from the truth. With 5 – 10% of Australians suffering with post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and an even greater number affected by trauma in other ways, you are far from alone.
However, the different ways in which individuals are affected by traumatic events can vary greatly. Some people don’t even realise their stress or poor coping mechanisms stem from a disturbing experience, while others may feel overwhelmed by memories, thoughts, or feelings that threaten to consume their life.
Sometimes, a response to trauma can be short-lived and temporary, but other times, it can stay with us for decades. In these cases, it may become such an ingrained part of our lives that we start to feel defined by it, or like we haven’t got the power to change ourselves.
Reclaiming control over our lives after a traumatic experience may be difficult, but with the help of an experienced trauma counsellor, it is 100% possible to make a full recovery.
Trauma counselling is a method of processing the body’s response to an acutely stressful situation. Although this response is natural and can be crucial for protecting our minds during painful times, it becomes destructive to our wellbeing if we are unable to process it effectively.
Events that may lead to trauma include physical or emotional abuse, sexual abuse, a serious car accident, natural disasters, war, the death of a loved one, relationship break downs, living through a natural disaster, or being a survivor of childhood trauma.
However, causes are not limited to these events, and what constitutes a traumatic event will differ from person to person.
Whatever the cause, the symptoms of unprocessed trauma range from sleeping problems like insomnia and nightmares, to mood disorders like anxiety, depression, and anger management issues. In the case of those who develop PTSD, intense flashbacks can even trigger the sufferer to relive a traumatising event in vivid detail.
An experienced trauma counsellor will use evidence based talking therapies in order to help a patient process their trauma. They do this in an environment where the patient can feel safe and empowered.
Some of the ways in which trauma disrupts our lives can be debilitating.
We might struggle with low self esteem and poor self worth, leading to negative coping strategies like avoidance, isolation, eating disorders or self harm. We might self medicate with alcohol or other substances, leading to addiction and poor life choices. Or, we might check out altogether and become emotionally detached, depriving us of the ability to feel joy.
Understanding trauma and its hold on us is the first step to disentangling who we are from what has happened to us. With the guidance of a qualified counsellor, trauma survivors are able to confront these painful memories in a safe, confidential setting, so they can begin to process them at their own pace.
Although it’s often difficult for traumatised individuals to speak about their past, sensitive and respectful counselling will make this process as comfortable as possible. The mental health benefits and easing of PTSD symptoms make this trauma therapy well worth any initial discomfort.
For trauma counselling which allows you to reclaim control over your mental health, SHYNE Wellness is here to help.
The life coaches and counsellors at SHYNE Wellness come highly qualified and highly recommended. Certified in the treatment of all types of trauma, including complex trauma, and emotional trauma, as well as interconnected issues like anxiety, depression, and anger management, the range of specialists at SHYNE Wellness are able to provide effective healing techniques for all symptoms, no matter how severe.
Even if trauma has left you feeling disempowered and hopeless, with SHYNE Wellness, you’re bound to find an approach that works for you. With services covering many different styles of counselling from spiritual practises to neuroscience, you can learn how to heal in every sphere of your life.
Founder, Poli, brings a wealth of knowledge and compassion to her treatments for trauma. A member of the Australian Counselling Association and International Coaching Federation, Poli is warm, caring, and dedicated to helping her clients find happiness. So, if you wish to move beyond the trauma in your life, simply phone 0417 616 406 or email info@shynewellness.com.au to learn how Poli and SHYNE Wellness can help!
The reality is we all have feelings and emotions and we all need healthy outlets to explore, understand, express and grow from these feelings and emotions.
Poli can help you start this process.
Poli is a multi-talented and committed Counsellor and Life Coach who is sincerely passionate about supporting her clients through their issues. Poli is a member of the Australian Counselling Association and International Coaching Federation and has assisted clients worldwide. She specialises in working with adolescents, couples, adults and families. Poli provides practical support that a client can use immediately to help them move forward in life.
Poli is a very warm, understanding and patient Counsellor and Life Coach who truly enjoys seeing her clients achieve success in their life. She listens compassionately and guides the client using forward thinking techniques that help them create a better future for themselves. Her extensive educational training gives her the ability to listen and coach clients through their problems in a way in which they feel empowered and inspired.
Poli offers a wide range of expertise in areas such as couples, relationship, marriage and family counselling and life coaching. Her skill set also includes communication, goal setting, anxiety, depression, stress, mental health, mindfulness, life balance, motivation, confidence, advice, healing, trauma, well-being, mentoring, self-development, and mindset strategies. Poli is a certified Counsellor, Emotionally Focused Therapist, a certified Master Life Coach, a certified NLP Master Practitioner, Archetype Coach, a Reiki Master, and is proficient in mindfulness meditation, A.C.T therapy, Palmistry, and Face Reading. Poli is affiliated with and registered under the International Coach Federation and the Australian Counselling Association.
If you’re unable to schedule an appointment and are feeling overwhelmed and would like immediate counselling and support, please call (0417 616 406).
Rebecca Kennedy | |
With such a broad unique skill set you can’t be in safer hands. Poli is so warm and approachable you feel at ease right from the outset. I highly recommend Poli, she genuinely cares about her clients and is invested in helping you achieve a positive outcome. She is a wonder! |
Julie O’Brien | |
Poli is truly a gifted and extraordinary visionary. Her humble character truly is an outstanding quality. Poli has a unique approach of being able to pinpoint the problem quickly and lead the individual to clarity and deep awareness. My personal experience has been enlightening and enabled me to shift through deep emotional blocks quickly. I rarely use the word Guru, yet in this case I would describe Poli as an enlightened Guru of soul blueprints, who truly is servants heart for those seeking deep insights and emotional healing. |
Liv | |
I have really appreciated Poli’s guidance over the last few months which has allowed me to make positive changes in my life and mindset. She intuitively knows when to say the right thing and also to challenge you in a kind and respectful manner. I would highly recommend her to anyone that is looking to make changes toward living a more authentic life. |
Tünel Hulusi | |
The moment you meet Poli, you feel her warmth and energy around you like a big hug. Poli has played an integral role in helping me navigate this thing we call “life”… her guidance brings logic and comfort to the ebbs and flows of our journey and there is no one else I’d want as my beacon of light through it all. From the very bottom of my heart, with infinite gratitude, always- T x |
Rachael | |
I have been searching for years for a genuine counsellor that has the knowledge and expertise that Poli has. She is as genuine as they come, tells it as is it and has the knowledge to back it up while still remaining caring and compassionate. I feel very lucky to have been supported by Poli at a time when it made a world of difference. I feel like I owe her so much. Thank you for everything Poli, your support has meant more than you will ever know. We need more people like this in the world. |
Ruby Robertson | |
After years of talking therapy, with not many results, Poli was recommended to me. She has an ability to empathise like no professional I have met, which did finally produce results. |
Emily Orcullo | |
I had the opportunity to do peer coaching with Poli and she truly comes with a wealth of experience in this space. She is a highly intuitive coach, she can draw out what is underlying behind the problem. Thank you, Poli! |
Prince Dib | |
Poli’s unwavering support and guidance has been a blessing through difficult times and she has been paramount in the growth in so many places in my life. Thank you Poli! |
Bron.e | |
Poli’s extensive knowledge, experience, care and compassion are the gifts she brings to every session where she gently guides me to explore and question things that are challenging me or holding me back. For me, each session builds on the last and I feel so privileged to have found Poli to help me become the best version of myself. I can’t thank you enough Poli for everything you do and all that you are. 🌻 |
Laudie Lambert | |
I have known Poli for many years and without a doubt, she has helped me in my darkest hours!
She is warm, caring and very in tune with what triggers anxiety and panic attacks, and to this day, cannot thank her enough! I highly recommend Poli and am positive you will be more than satisfied with your consultation and communication with her! Laudie Lambert |
Tini Ch | |
Poli is a very skilled and compassionate professional who has allowed me to speak freely, without judgement. She is helping me understand the root cause of my actions and reactions. Poli has given me a safe place to examine my feelings and behaviours and her counsel and advice is invaluable. Thank you Poli. |
yael kollan | |
Poli is very rare in her field. She has the ability to analyze the situation and know exactly what is going on. Through her extensive clinical experience, she allows the patient to observe himself sincerely. Poli has the ability to change your life! Highly recommended!!! |
Sim Stevens | |
Poli is an extraordinary woman with an amazing ability to read people and their needs. The way in which Poli communicates with people is calming and reassuring, while always encouraging you to live your best life with new and wonderful skills. 🙂 |
Bevan East | |
I’ve been a patient here for a few years, particularly of the psychology department with Poli. To say I have found it extremely beneficial is an understatement. I have developed skills and an understanding of myself that is difficult to describe. But has had a monumental impact on my life. Starting out with high levels of anxiety and depression, my ability to control my emotions and harness abilities more effectively has seen positive aspects in my social life, relationships, work life and studies. I would recommend this clinic to anyone who wants to solve their problems, improve their life and or more effectively and efficiently communicate. |